Sunday, May 1, 2016
FAMILY COURT INFO
Hello and welcome to our blog here we will be posting things to try to help families.We can not let our kids end up in the family court.I fought the family courts for 2 years.I could not afford an attorney and i had no money the CPS told lies after lies.I had one of the best wintess that anyone would want my witness was an ex cheif of police.Just for the judge she did not belive my witness and the state had no witness so i had to live by there rulesl.And do what they want i spend days at the law libary i had no money for copys so i hand wrote the info down so i was in bad shape i was like what can i do.Was court order to have a hair drug test and they went back 90 days and it came back clean just like i knew it was just for CPS to say i was beating their drug test.So lets see i had no money so how could i beat their hair test.Later on in the case CPS found out that they got involved i a bunch of lies and it was a family issue my own flesh and blood was trying to steal my Daughter from a happy and carrying mom and dad what kind of family member would want to do that to someone.My best friend the ex cheif of police that the judge called a lier could not belive what he was seeing corruption at it's max.He would say man how could they be doing this to you i told him i ask my self the same thing.We called news crew after news crew just for them to say we don't get involved in them things the has CPS involved and as i would ask my self why no one wants to hear my story.That made me beat my self up even more.I was fighting a loosing battle is this where it ends 28 years old.Then i hit rock bottom yes my wife was for me but she could do then i said i could not take it anymore my own family.Brought me down then that day came where i just felt i was a failer to my only child then i did it i tryed to take my life but it did not work.I told my self that day that i could not give these people what they want me dead so they could take the only girl in the family so i even fought harder and i told my baby girl that she would be coming home to mommy and daddy soon i started file my own motion that day and i can to court and fight my ❤ out.Like a parent would the courts seen i was doing all my own legal work the courts seen i was not giving up she was coming home well 3 months later we had her home and CPS had to keep the case opened for 280 day and on day 281 the case would be colse.Things was going good we had our baby girl just for CPS to come to my House on day 279 thought they was going to do the home study like they have been doing.We could not get that lucky so on day 279 i told me they was there to take my baby girl again the reson was the home was not big eough.so it takes you 7 months to come up with this you could have told us that we had to move before you just come and destroy us again.She told me o well i got her back 6 months later she was back at home.And now she is with me now.She has been back home now for 7years.I know that things get hard and you just want to give up.We can not beat our selfs up.After i tryed to take my life I realized I shouldn't try to take me life it would had just made my family because they got what they want my baby girl.Just for my baby to grow up asking her self every day why did my dad take his life did he not want me what kind of daddy would he have been I wonder did he love me what kind of life i would i had with my dad.So when times get hard and you feel like you hit rock bottom pick your self up and show the corrupted that you can be storger than them.I will be posting info on the Family Court and if i could be a help in any way you can send me a msg on this blog And I will get back with you are if you want someone to talk to we are hear.Had to let people know our story
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I can honestly say that this has touched my heart in more than one way.my son has been away from me for four weeks and i feel nothing but hopelessness, like i didnt try hard enough, like i wasnt the mom that he needed to be. My son is 1 and that evening brings flashbacks as if it just happened yesterday. I still remember me telling my baby boy that everything was gonna be ok and the look in his eyes broke me down to a million peices. Theres so many night when i just cry asking why this happened why was someone of my own family willing to risk my sons whole future. Ive gotten proof to everything and still no one wants to listen. Even now they wont and cant tell me a valid readon to why they took him but in the end im a fighter and i will do whatever it takes to have him right back in my arms
Damn am sorry yu all went threw that for real I know I didn't deserve to loose my kids years and years ago because the social worker wanted me to get an epo on Gary saying he hit me and he didn't and I told her that I wasn't going to lie on him and so she made us do a drug test well 20 days after we took the test she came and removed my kids and placed them with my mom and dad Gary had coke in his system and I had a deluded and they considered that is 30 which is bull shit and my attorney told me that if I pled guilty on 4 accounts of neglect that he would have my kids back in 2 months and needless to say it was six months later so I tell everyone do not plead guilty to that charge because they are full of it and you will not get your kids back any sooner now when a worker comes in my house two years ago I had no respect for them I let them in and when smoke a cigg I have nothing for a worker I have a worker in my life right now due to a woman staying in my house she has a 13 year old child who she has abandoned not once but twice the first time she left her for 3 days the second time was 6 days so the school called the social workers so when we went to sign power of attorney over to me at the social worker office the social worker look into my cases and said it had been 6 years since I've had a case that where I was found guilty Sochi sign power of attorney over to me and yet here the mom is again has been gone for 7 days do to her brother dying but yet she still hasn't even had a funeral this child wants to live with me her mother wants to give me guardianship so I'm hoping that I still get guardianship because this child is not related to me if you go through my post you will see everything that I went through for this kid even when her mom is here her mom does not wake her up for school I'll wash her clothes I cook and clean and make sure this child has everything she needs yesterday I put out $100 for her for her field trip to go to Kings Island so when it comes to social workers they disgust me......This is another story
I can honestly see where your coming from. Ive been put in a situation where from sun up to son down id be doing everything for my son. There are just some people who dont understand the meaning of having a child.you not only gave a life to a child they also give you yours. I didnt know what love was until my son was born he was the true meaning of unconditional love. I as well despise social workers because they tell you one thing and do something completley different. They are not there to keep your family together they are there to rip innocent children from great parents. Threw the years ive come to realize that fighting and staying strong is my only options. I dont care how many times i hear foster parents arent there to turn your child against you.... Bullshit! Everyone that has known me personally knows i did everything for my little boy even if it comes down to my last dime, they knew he was bathed daily fed more than three times a day, had clothes on his bavk, had a bed to sleep. In and NEVER had a single bruise. But for the social workers to sit there and lie saying theres signs of abuse thats funny because the only reason he would be abuses is if you put him in a home where they beat him and neglected him. This has taken a tole on my life in crazy ways. I cant seem to eat, sleep, im loosing an amount of weight within weeks. All i want is to have my son back in my arms where hes safe
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